Coping with stress....

Stress and anxiety has become a part of our everyday lives. It seems unnatural to hear people who claim they do not or have not suffered from it at some point.
I have often found myself feeling a little like the scream:

But I have learned to cope with it just by doing simple little things and have though to share my wisdom!

Of course it is sooooo much easier for people in a relationship- they just have so many more options and people to throw stuff at but never mind!
I will not tell you the traditional crap about listening to music really loud or dancing blah blah blah....


My advice is go nuts! Break things - if you have neighbours or colleagues
you dislike what more do you want? You have a place to break things on
AND  get rid of people you don't like- a hit like that should buy you a couple
of weeks without them at least!!!!!

Shout! I have only realised recently that people I see walking talking to themselves
in the street are not crazy - they are just pissed off having a bad day- and what is so
different talking out loud to talking inside your head? I bet there are some really scary
voices, scarier than the ones that are heard out loud! So go ahead start shouting at the
top of your lungs!!!

Honestly it will make you feel better plus no one would bother you cause they'll think
you are a little cuckoo :).  Now there are two ways you can do this either by using a pillow
which by the way you can punch and throw about as well, or by going completely naked
with banana peel on your head running in the street - it really comes down to how extrovert
you are really.

 Drinking- now this I find is a trap cause it could backfire making you feel worst or get a
hangover the next day so instead of letting off steam you feel worst and have a hangover
plus you could end up with a drinking problem if you do that every time you get stressed
plus it costs to drink these days and it is no time for spending!!!

Be sarcastic - now this is a clever little tip cause people don't often get sarcasm.
You avoid swearing at people you can't stand, they probably won't get you are being
sarcastic and even if they do and repeat back what you said to someone else,
the response itself will not pass as sarcastic.

So these are a few helpful tips I hope!!!!

Take care......


the scream: http://1800recycling.com/2010/08/recycled-munchs-scream/

The 3 day rule

There is this 3 day rule guys follow before calling a girl they just met.

 I can remember this unwritten rule since I started going out. 

For some reason it takes guys 3 days to call so they won't seem too keen on the lady. 

Or maybe they were so pissed the night they met the lady that they are not sure if they should call in case she turns out to be a dog. 

Either way they end up calling after 3 days anyway. 

I always wondered though - why 3 days? Why not 2 or 4? 2 is seen as too soon and 4 as too long?

And why would you want to show a girl you just met and trying to get into her knickers that you are not so keen on her? Is that really the best thing to do to get a girl to sleep with you? Way to go! I bet it makes girls feel so special they will just take off their clothes instantly and beg for it.

If you end up calling you are showing you like her anyway so why does it take 3 days? You never know what happens in those 3 days!

In the mean time women know about this and not surprised it takes the guy 3 days so what is the point of tiptoeing around that call.

And on a final note: women think this is a stupid rule!

Crazy bitches....

I know - and that is because I have heard many guy friends- call many women that. I'm sure you would have too.

But have you ever wondered what it is that makes women become that kind of psychotic uncontrollable - wanting to bash her head against the wall crazy bitch which looks something like this:


There is allot - and I mean aaaallooot of reasons as in her words 'you are incapable of doing anything' and that you 'don't understand'
therefore when you ask her what's wrong the easiest response she can give you is the common 'nothing'. 

First of all you have to accept men and women are different like two species instead of one. This is the
reason men don't get them and often annoy women

so much without even realising they just pissed off
their partners. Simple things that can raise hell and I mean really raise hell is the guy having gone to so much trouble, taking his lady out to a wonderful restaurant - bringing her flowers really making an effort having her feel so special just like a queen only seeing her man to ruin the evening he so well organised by checking another woman's ass - really something guys just don't get why it  makes women go like this:

How hard can it be to figure out what is so annoying by doing that since they have done soooo much to please their partners. By the way ladies next time you feel like saying 'nothing' with the hope they will figure out what it is they have done - don't! They will never get it and you will grow old waiting!

Of course there are things more serious than these that drive a lady in a state of insanity than checking out another woman's bum.   There is nothing worst you can do than not pick the phone up when a lady calls you and not reply to her messages - this drives women crazy and just a note ladies: if he wont pick up or reply it is not because he fainted from happiness - so stop calling!

Young women in their 20's yes - will maybe grow to fancy you more and find you a little more irresistible - but older women who know what they want? You'll just piss them off - that's it!
Now how can this cause a woman to  pull a 'crazy bitch' on you if she's in her 30's? It can do if you two are involved - will it hurt your hands to pick up or call back if you have missed her call?

Families and mothers in particular are another thing that drives women crazy - not only theirs which they have to put up with and keep listening to 'when are you having children' blah blah....Also your mothers guys - and mostly how they can twist and turn you and be able to manipulate you without you even having a hint and when your woman tries to point it out in a subtle way so she won't sound mean she gets such an ignorance from you that - and I think I speak on behalf of all the ladies here- can just drive her up the wall and smack you in the face. She probably looks like this when she tells her friends about it:

So these are only few of the sooooo many things guys do to drive women crazy. So all you guys remember: women will be the ones in the end to survive no matter what- she survives giving birth and haemorrhaging every month of most of her adult life so there's not much that can put her down. So don't act all clever cause eventually she will get you back!

All photos belong to : http://moviesfilmsandflix.com/2012/02/08/craziest-chicks-of-film-part-ii/

Landing in London by: 3 doors down

I woke up today in London
As the plane was touching down
And all I could think about was monday
And maybe ill be back around

If this keeps me away much longer
I dont know what i will do
Youve got to understand its a hard life
That im going through

And when the night falls in around me
I dont think ill make it through
Ill use your light to guide the way
Cause all I think about is you

Well L.A is getting kinda crazy
And New york is getting kinda cold
I keep my head from geting lazy
I just cant wait to get back home

And all these days i spend away
Ill make up for this i swear
I need your love to hold me up
When its all too much to bear

And all these days i spend away
Ill make up for this i swear
I need your love to hold me up
When its all too much to bear

source:http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/3doorsdown/landinginlondon.html

These days by: Bon Jovi

I was walking around, just a face in the crowd
Trying to keep myself out of the rain
Saw a vagabond king wear a styrofoam crown
Wondered if I might end up the same
There's a man out on the corner
Singing old songs about change
Everybody got their cross to bare, these days

She came looking for some shelter with a suitcase full of dreams
To a motel room on the boulevard
I guess she's trying to be James Dean
She's seen all the disciples and all the "wanna be's"
No one wants to be themselves these days
Still there's nothing to hold on to but these days

These days - the stars seem out of reach
These days - there ain't a ladder on the streets
These days are fast, nothing lasts in this graceless age
There ain't nobody left but us these days

Jimmy shoes busted both his legs, trying to learn to fly
From a second story window, he just jumped and closed his eyes
His momma said he was crazy - he said, "Momma, I've got to try.
Don't you know that all my heroes died?
And I guess I'd rather die than fade away."

I know Rome's still burning
Though the times have changed
This world keeps turning round and round and round and round
These days

source: http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/bonjovi/thesedays.html

Brainwashed : the secret history of mind control by Streatfeild

When I read this book I was blown away by the things I had read.

You will be amazed of how far human beings could go when acting in a state of power and what they are capable of doing in order to reach their goal.

Those who are interested in conspiracy theory will in my opinion find this a very interesting book.
The book refers to a different case in every chapter, from the methods used by intelligence agencies such as CIA like hypnosis to how psychological and pharmaceutical  methods have been used in order to get the 'truth' out to how the Irish were made to admit to being part of the IRA even when innocent.

The book covers a range of brainwashing methods used globally even by organisations which act in the name of God, hidden messages in metal bands L.P's when played backwards etc.

An easy to read book will make you feel as if your eyes have been opened. I enjoyed every minute of reading and learned a lot too.


I'm sure you will enjoy it too!
















http://www.amazon.com/Brainwash-Secret-History-Mind-Control/dp/031232572X

About her and him

When a woman responds to what you say by saying 'What?' is not cause she didn't hear you so change your response quick!

Just because a woman wants to be equal and get paid the same as a man does for the same job does not mean you have to be cheap and ask her to get the bill the first time you go out.

Just because a man pays a woman a compliment does not mean necessarily he wants to get in her pants just  means he is polite or wants to make her feel better.

Just because you are a guy with so many insecurities does not mean your lady has to stay in and cook clean and pretend to be a cleaning lady and not get a paying job.

Stop calling your ex after drinking - give your friends the phone!

The most common problem between women and men is communication - even when they say the same thing they say it so differently that its like they say something opposite to each other.

Men can't handle honesty and that is why they feed women with so many lies even when they don't need to lie!

Women focus too much on the things a guy can give them and not so much on the guy himself.

This life by Curtis Stigers & The forest rangers

Ridin' through this world
All alone
God takes your soul
You're on your own

The crow flies straight
A perfect line
On the devil's path
Until you die

This life is short
Baby that's a fact
Better live it right
You ain't comin' back

Gotta raise some hell
Before they take you down
Gotta live this life

Gotta look this world
In the eye
Gotta live this life
Till you die

You better have soul
Nothin' less
Cause when it's business time
It's life or death

The king is dead
But life goes on
Don't lose your head
When a deal goes down

Better keep your eye 
On the road ahead
Gotta live this life